Old Friends

Funny how the holidays get ppl together that haven't talked in a long time.

One of my oldest and dearest friends, from high school, and I got back together and started hanging out again. My mom and dad had a Christmas party that I attended, and invited J to come hang out with me. She did, and we fast picked up our friendship again. It's been several years, she was busy or I was busy, and we just sort of fell out of touch. We only live a few miles from each other, but it might have well been thousands for the amount of time we had previously been able to spend hanging out. She has a child and I have children, so life is hectic and chaotic to say the least. But we rediscovered each other, and how much fun it is to just be around each other, watch moves, have dinner, just be in the same place at the same time. It's really cool. Not to mention that she is one person that has known me longer than my husband, I can tell anything to, and she has never been judgemental or hypocritical to me. I can actually trust her, unlike some of my friends. So I guess we are more close than any of my other friendships, barring the hubby, despite being apart for so long. I'm just exicted to have her in my life again. One of those fundamental people in my life that I love dearly, and really does my heart good to get be around her.

A great many people that I call friends, I dont hang out with, or let into my homelife. I jealously protect my homelife, it's my santuary from the world and my security. But J, I feel safe having her around, even if all I am doing is basic home stuff, like laundry. Just someone to keep my company when Cop Hubby is working, or just someone to watch a movie with. Cop hubby will watch a 'chick flick' with me, but it's not the same as with a girlfriend.

Anyway, as far as the lawsuit, I am still waiting, will be calling soon to see how goes it.

night all.